Too Good to Leave Too Bad to Stay Decide Whether to Stay In or Get Out of Your Relationship (Audible Audio Edition) Mira Kirshenbaum Adriane McNeely Brilliance Audio Books
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To make up or break up? Whether you're just getting serious or have a long-term commitment, no other question causes so much heartache and self-doubt. Many other books tell you how to fix your relationship. This groundbreaking best seller is the first one to help you choose whether you should try-or you need to go.
Psychotherapist Mira Kirshenbaum draws on years of research and her work with real-life couples to help you make the right decision. She shows you how to diagnose your unique situation with self-analysis and questions like these, which get to the very heart of your problems
Mira Kirshenbaum provides expert guidelines that are the key to making all your choices, concrete steps that you can implement right now, and the ultimate way to determine your personal bottom line-what you need to be happy. This remarkably insightful and probing guide offers advice that lets you see the truth about your relationship-and with wisdom and compassion, it helps you act with the confidence of knowing that, whether you decide to go or stay, you are doing the very best thing.
Too Good to Leave Too Bad to Stay Decide Whether to Stay In or Get Out of Your Relationship (Audible Audio Edition) Mira Kirshenbaum Adriane McNeely Brilliance Audio Books
I was stuck. I was trapped. I was caught in a war between ethics and ideals.Marriage, to me, was it. It was for life. There never was any other alternative. Even in the circumstances I was in where my very well being was under attack, I still found it difficult. I constantly thought "well ... what if THIS time is different. Then your relationship will have a bond that's immeasurable. You'll be free of all fear and all doubt."
When I got this book it was my plan to read through it and reaffirm my reasons to stay. To be able to move forward, fully committed and free of fear. I was desperately hunting for something to tell me it was okay to stay. That staying was the right choice.
Upon reading the beginning of the book, I saw all of the words about staying. All of the benefits and clarity that comes. I thought this was the perfect book.
I took every single question seriously. Deliberately, trying to make the best of every single memory while remaining truly honest with myself in the process. I wrote down every answer. I let time pass and read it again, trying to make sure it was the mood of the moment. I thought I was building the case to stay.
I found that it was time to leave.
It's been 3.5 years after an 11 year relationship.
It was simple. It was honest. This is truly a powerful book.
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Too Good to Leave Too Bad to Stay Decide Whether to Stay In or Get Out of Your Relationship (Audible Audio Edition) Mira Kirshenbaum Adriane McNeely Brilliance Audio Books Reviews
Finally a therapist who is willing to provide clear guidance instead of asking what I feel about it and then leaving it up to me to determine if it is bad enough to leave the relationship. I highly recommend this book to anyone who is ambivalent about their relationship.
this is an amazing book of truth. really different way of getting to the bottom line of situations. refreshingly effective, new perspective. i'm very grateful to the author. anybody in a relationship, good or bad, will benefit from this insight and this book is an excellent gift to anyone struggling in a relationship -- better than personal advice. thanks.
A great common sense guide to get you though the quagmire of doubts, woulda, coulda, shouda thinking that bogs us down. This is NOT a "tell you WHAT to do book," but rather an affirmation of what you probably already know. Regardless if your choice to stay and work, or leave, you WILL feel more confident in this painful decision.
This is a sad nut necessary book for people sitting on the fence about their relationships. I prefer to help people save marriages, but that takes two people. When you have one that won't come to counseling, or won't do anything differently to improve the relationship, and is not interested, this helps the other think through their relationship, and make a decision, versus twisting in agony for years, vacillating between guilt and resentment.
After struggling to decide to stay in my marriage or leave, this book gave me some clarity. I felt really good about my decision to stay by the end of it. However, there are so many steps it became hard to remember them all. Getting through to the end felt tedious and monotonous. I recommend taking notes as you read so you don't have to continually re-read.
Mira made me realize my marraige was too good to leave. Now my wife and I are experiencing the best times in our marriage. This book should be a requirement for every newlywed.
If you can't decide to leave or stay you 're in relationship ambivalence. Having been married for 10 yrs and being stuck in between wanting to leave and not knowing if i was making the right decision i am so greatful I found this book. This book made my decision to leave a very clear one. No more ambivalence. Now comes the other hard part. Thank goodness for Mira kirshenbaum.
I was stuck. I was trapped. I was caught in a war between ethics and ideals.
Marriage, to me, was it. It was for life. There never was any other alternative. Even in the circumstances I was in where my very well being was under attack, I still found it difficult. I constantly thought "well ... what if THIS time is different. Then your relationship will have a bond that's immeasurable. You'll be free of all fear and all doubt."
When I got this book it was my plan to read through it and reaffirm my reasons to stay. To be able to move forward, fully committed and free of fear. I was desperately hunting for something to tell me it was okay to stay. That staying was the right choice.
Upon reading the beginning of the book, I saw all of the words about staying. All of the benefits and clarity that comes. I thought this was the perfect book.
I took every single question seriously. Deliberately, trying to make the best of every single memory while remaining truly honest with myself in the process. I wrote down every answer. I let time pass and read it again, trying to make sure it was the mood of the moment. I thought I was building the case to stay.
I found that it was time to leave.
It's been 3.5 years after an 11 year relationship.
It was simple. It was honest. This is truly a powerful book.
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